Anal practices in BDSM culture have long ceased to be taboo, but among them there are especially extreme and aesthetically charged fetishes. Anal Gape is the conscious stretching of the anus to a visible open state after extracting an object. For some it is a challenge to their own body, for others it is an aesthetic of submission, and for others it is a way of deep psychological control.
What is Anal Gape and why is it exciting?
This fetish focuses on the moment when, after removing a large object (dildo, plug, fist), the anus remains open for several seconds or minutes. Its appeal is based on several aspects:
1. Physiological arousal
Stimulation of the nerve endings in the anal area causes intense sensations.
Control over usually involuntary muscles creates the effect of “overcoming oneself.
2. Psychology of dominance
For submissives, it is a demonstration of absolute compliance.
For dominants, it is a visible confirmation of power (“I left a mark on your body”).
3. Aesthetics of “being used”
In some BDSM dynamics, this symbolizes the “acceptance” of a partner on a deep level.
Safety First: How to Practice Anal Gape
According to the Scarleteen resource specializing in sexual education, such experiments require:
1. Gradual preparation
Start with small sizes (fingers, thin plugs).
Use a large amount of water-based lubricant.
Train the muscles of the anus regularly, but without fanaticism.
2. Medical nuances
Avoid sudden movements — risk of injury to the mucous membrane.
Take care of hygiene (enemas, special soap).
Allow the body to recover between sessions.
3. Psychological comfort
Discuss the boundaries in advance.
Enter a “safe word” even in harsh scenarios.
Mandatory aftercare — the anus is sensitive, and the emotional state after intense submission can be vulnerable.
Where can I see professional practices?
On Dominatrix cams, experienced masters often demonstrate controlled Anal Gape, combining it with other elements of BDSM:
- Fixation in poses that emphasize the “gaping”.
- Humiliation/praise for an “obedient” body.
- The use of special expanders.
It is important: In the aesthetics of the dominant submissive, it is always a conscious choice, not coercion.
Criticism and myths
- “It’s not natural”
- The anus is an elastic muscle. With proper preparation, stretching is reversible.
- “So you can ‘loosen up’ the sphincter.”
- Short-term gape does not affect rest tone. Problems arise only with chronic injuries.
- “This is only for passive partners”
Many dominants practice self—attraction in order to better understand the feelings of subordinates.
Trust, challenge, and body art
Anal Gape is not just an extreme fetish, but a complex practice that requires knowledge, respect for your partner and love for your body. In the BDSM context, it becomes a metaphor: to accept something, you must first open up.
How do you feel about such experiments? Would you try? Share it in the comments (no shame!).














