So, as I can resume for you here and now: BDSM is not about torture, it’s not about violence. No-no! It’s certainly not about psychopathy or disorders. It’s about consent, love (yes!!!) trust and adrenaline, which can turn sex (and more) into a real art. If you still think that leather handcuffs are “weird” and role—playing games are “for perverts,” it’s time to rethink your views. Because BDSM is a huge subculture that has its own rules, philosophy, and even… online courses.
BDSM is 100% normal
According to research cited by Psychology Today, about 20% of people have tried BDSM practices at least once, and for many it has become part of a regular intimate life. And yes, this applies to both men and women — contrary to stereotypes, submissives (those who like to obey) are no less among guys than among girls. Why does it work? Because BDSM is not just sex, but a game with power, emotions and bodily sensations. And sometimes there is no sex at all in this practice. Someone gets a kick out of mild pain, someone gets a kick out of role-playing games of domination/submission, and someone just loves the aesthetics of leather corsets and strict overlords.
BDSM Cams: Have fun and be inspired
If earlier beginners had to look for knowledge in basement forums (and literally fill up the bumps), now there are BDSM Cams, online platforms where professionals show how to play domination, bondage or sensory play correctly. And if you’re really interested, go to bdsm live, as it’s one of the best online resources on the internet.
“What if I’m crazy?” — No, I’m just curious.
If you’re attracted to BDSM, it doesn’t mean that you were bitten by a dom vampire as a child. Psychologists (yes, the ones who write in Psychology Today) have long proved that a healthy interest in BDSM is not associated with injuries or deviations. This is the same kind of sexuality as the love of oral sex or a romantic candlelit dinner.
The main rules of BDSM culture:
- SSC (Safe, Sane, Consensual) — safe, reasonable, consensual.
- Agreements. We discuss the boundaries BEFORE the game.
- The day after. Hugs, tea, and debriefing are a must.
So if your partner suddenly offers you handcuffs, don’t panic. Maybe he just wants you both to have fun. And if not, you can always say “stop.”
BDSM is not scary, not shameful, and certainly not “just for a select few.” This is a culture where there is a place for female domination, gentle submission, and experimentation with new sensations.
If you have any questions, write! And also send your ideas for new articles, write your stories about BDSM and other practices. And I’m waiting for your recommendations for new webcam sites where you can enjoy your favorite fetishes.
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