Bondage Stories for Beginners: How to add some rope to your sex life

Have you ever wondered why Bondage is one of the most popular BDSM elements? It’s simple: It’s beautiful, exciting, and doesn’t require buying a thousand-dollar leather suit right away. If you and your partner want to try something new, but are afraid that you “won’t make it” — this guide is for you. (And yes, it works for all couples — straight, LGBT+, polyamorous, and generally any configurations. The Trevor Project, for example, notes that many queer couples are also actively interested in BDSM, but they don’t always know where to look for safe information.)

Where do you start your Bondage Stories? The simplest ways

1. “Soft” bondage for beginners

You don’t have to tie your partner up in complicated knots right away — start with simple and safe options.:

Silk scarves or soft ropes are difficult to damage, even if you don’t know how to knit knots.

Soft—lined handcuffs are sold in any sex shop.

A simple hold —sometimes it’s enough to pin your partner to the bed with your hands and say, “Don’t move.”

The main rule is to always keep scissors close by. Even if it seems that “everything will come loose easily.”

2. Webcam resources as a free master class

Yes, you heard right! Many BDSM webcam models not only entertain, but also teach. For example:

How to tie your hands properly so as not to strain your nerves.

Which poses are best for beginners (spoiler alert: “lying on your back” is the safest option).

How to add eroticism to the process — for example, running your fingers over the skin while your partner is immobilized.

And yes, you can watch it with your partner as a prelude to your experiments.

3. Read Bondage Stories

If you don’t have enough inspiration, the Internet is full of erotic stories about bondage. From the romantic (“They tied her up with a silk scarf and kissed her until she was soaked”) to the harsh (“He couldn’t move, and she did whatever she wanted with him”).

Try reading this text to each other before sex — it’s a great way to tune in to the right wave.

What do Bondage Stories do in a relationship?

1. Trust

When you bind a partner (or allow yourself to be tied up), you fully trust them with control. It’s a very intimate moment.

2. New sensations

Restricting movement sharpens other senses:

Touching seems to be much more sensual.
Even light slaps or kisses are perceived much more vividly.
An orgasm can be stronger simply because you “can’t help yourself.

” 3. Playing and flirting

Bondage is not necessarily about “rigid submission.” You can just play:

“Try to escape… Oh, it doesn’t work? What a pity.”
“You’re completely at my mercy right now. What should I do to you?”
“If you move, it’s a punishment. If you don’t move… it’s also a punishment.”

Where can I learn safe bondage?

If you are seriously interested, here are some resources:

The Trevor Project is not only about LGBT+ people, but also about safe sexual practices.

BDSM webcams — as we have already said, you can watch techniques there.

Forums like FetLife — but be careful, there are a lot of “self-taught” people there.

Bondage is just another way to have fun. You don’t have to become a shibari master right away — you can start with soft scarves and gradually move on.

The main thing is agreement, security and the desire of both. And if, after reading it, you wanted to buy a rope and immediately test it on a partner… well, have a good evening! Have you tried bondage? Share your experience in the comments!

Where do you start your Bondage Stories? The simplest ways

What do Bondage Stories do in a relationship?

Where can I learn safe bondage?

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